Pankaj Kishore MD
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23 Murray Drive, Glenmont, NY 12077
Phone: (518) 462-0253
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Monday : 9:30 am to 3:30 pm
Tuesday : 11:00 am to 6:00 pm
Wednessday : 11:00 am to 6:00 pm
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Punch Drunk Love
Punch drunk love is a story about a person with a psychiatric problem and how he overcomes it. Such movies, if well made, usually do have a positive impact on me. This one was pretty well made.
Adam Sandler very aptly portrayed the role of a person with a personality disorder. His gestures, posture, expressions and the tone of his voice were just what one would expect from such a person. Seeing him in that role, his sisters' intrusion in his life and privacy seemed very natural.
If you can tolerate the slow pace for the first half hour or so, you will be rewarded with the pleasure of watching a blossoming romance and his courageous confrontation of his personality issues.
The major drawback of this movie is the perpetuation of the myth: 'love can cure'. It is this wrong assumption that makes thousands of people (especially women) to stick indefinitely with patients of personality disorder, with the hope that they could rescue him. Often, such patients end up becoming more and more exploitative of and dependant on their partners.
The role of Emily Watson as a woman who accepts him 'as he is', is definitely a part of the solution. But they also need to be gently pushed and confronted. The miraculous recovery after falling in love can be very appealing and raise false expectations. Usually these people require patient, long-term work to get over their long-standing interpersonal and psychological difficulties.
I would recommend the movie as an overall pleasurable experience but not to be taken literally. 'Love' cannot replace painstaking hard work.
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